tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8585428049621285911.post2986510128746227892..comments2023-10-29T12:43:06.930+00:00Comments on Beauty, Miscellany: Sunday Weigh-In: Dear Diary 7th July - 13th JulyUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8585428049621285911.post-10192968849595419242014-07-15T06:47:17.667+01:002014-07-15T06:47:17.667+01:00Keep on spirit dear!
Mind to visit my newest post...Keep on spirit dear!<br /><br />Mind to visit my newest post?<br />http://missdjoen.blogspot.com/2014/07/wonderland-does-exist-alice-tea-room.html<br /><br />Love,<br />missdjoen.blogspot.commissdjoenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07933901674374012590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8585428049621285911.post-57965530594487194062014-07-14T11:51:04.359+01:002014-07-14T11:51:04.359+01:00Its not good to feel guilty about what happened to...Its not good to feel guilty about what happened to Beast. Its sad when we loose a pet we tend to blame our selves for dumb things, like for example fluffy would shower me with kisses and at times i said i don't want all your kisses in a cute way…and when fluffy passed i wanted to go back in time and take that back. I try to have my last memories with my pets to be a good one at least doing what they would want to do. Even though i know i am crying at the time i am doing it such as with lassie even with a tourer and blood pouring out of her nose she STILL wanted to go for a walk around the block. So i would take her but crying. telling her how cute and pretty she is and many times i would just pick her up and give her a hug. With valentine i tried to let him spend some time with the pets, gave him a home cooked meal and a big dish of water, give him a nice walk (again i am crying during all of this take some last photos of us) Again not the greatest last memories but its something. But I tried not to let the passing of my pets get me upset. I think of the happy memories i had with them and they memories i gave them. Like fluffy she liked me singing keith richards to her and i put on "this place is empty" and sure i cried and had the song on repeat for awhile. But try to go on with your normal life as much as you can. I think beast would want you to, and know that where he is right now he is with new friends i am sure that norman, mopsey, lassie, fluffy, valentine, and more of my pets are showing him around heaven on big white fluffy clouds. But when we pass our pets do not want us to morn the loss of them for awhile they want us to (when we are ready) to use that love and pass it along to another pet. For now just try to do the best you can. I have photos of my pets on everything so when i see them (alive now or past) they still give me a smile. Thats about all i can say on the subject. Once more i am sorry! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09832027177639857437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8585428049621285911.post-71242961104363699932014-07-13T21:49:15.407+01:002014-07-13T21:49:15.407+01:00It's been so hard to focus. It's always st...It's been so hard to focus. It's always strange, I know it should get better but at the time it just feels like there is no way out. I think I'll end up mourning him for longer than I've had him at this rate. I'll try and be fit and healthy for him at least, skipping meals won't help him. xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08947293197019953132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8585428049621285911.post-21754456018309882482014-07-13T19:14:58.001+01:002014-07-13T19:14:58.001+01:00Aww hugs, not a week to worry about weight/food/ex...Aww hugs, not a week to worry about weight/food/exercise, just focus on grieving and remember The Beast, the rest can wait. It sounds trite but it will get easier - you won't ever forget him but the pain does ease xxxCheryl Pasquierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17616020125806847507noreply@blogger.com